EFT Tapping Script for Healing from Divorce

Divorce is one of the most painful and disruptive experiences a person can have. Thankfully, EFT can be used to release all of the grief, trauma, and stress that it causes. Whether you're in the beginning stages of divorce, or you've been divorced for a long time, this script will help you to identify and release painful feelings about the experience, so that you can truly be free from it.





As with all of my tapping scripts, these statements can be used as is, or modified in any way that makes them resonate more fully with your experience. Some of them will fit for you, and some will not. Just use the ones that fit your experience and have an emotional charge.


You may notice that when you start tapping on these statements, thoughts and feelings will arise that you can then turn into new tapping statements, which will then give rise to still more thoughts and feelings, which you can use to create additional tapping statements, and so on. I call this following the thread, and it’s a very efficient way to heal and release a lot of painful feelings in a short amount of time.

If, when working with this tapping script, you get stuck, aren't getting the results you'd like to get, or would simply like to have the support and guidance of an experienced professional, I recommend working with a trained EFT practitioner.





I’m getting divorced and I’m really upset about it.


Getting divorced is so difficult and upsetting that I don’t even know where to start.


Getting divorced is really overwhelming.


When my husband/wife and I got married, I never imagined that it would end in divorce.


I really wish my husband/wife and I could have figured out how to save our marriage.


I wish I had done more to save my marriage, but now it’s too late.


I wish my husband/wife had done more to save our marriage.


I thought I was going to grow old with my spouse, but now we’re divorced and that dream is gone.


Now that I’m divorced, I’m afraid I’m going to grow old alone.


The fact that I’m divorced is a complete shock to my system.


I never wanted to be a divorced person, but here I am.


I tried so hard to save my marriage, but it didn’t work, and I am devastated.


I got divorced and lost my spouse, my kids, and my home in the process, and I am really hurting.


Being divorced makes me feel like a failure.


I feel guilty for getting divorced because of what my kids are going through.


I wish I could have stayed married for the sake of my kids, but I just couldn’t do it.


Getting divorced makes me feel like my life is broken and I don’t know how to fix it.


Getting divorced means the death of so many of my hopes and dreams, and I am really, really sad.


Seeing what my kids are going through because of the divorce is breaking my heart.


Maybe if I had done things differently, we could have stayed married.


My husband/wife and I are getting divorced, and my heart is broken.


I really feel devastated by my divorce, and I’m afraid I’ll never get over it.


Getting divorced made me feel like I lost my direction in life.


Getting divorced really made me feel like I’d lost my bearings.


I wish I could have waved a magic wand and fixed everything that was wrong with our relationship so that we could have stayed married.


I really miss my husband/wife and I’m so sad that we couldn’t work it out.


I really miss the life I used to have with my husband/wife and kids, but it all fell apart, and there was no way to put it back together.


I wish my friends and family could understand why I felt like I had to get divorced—I really need their support.


I wish my kids could understand why I had to leave their mother/father. Maybe it would make this all easier for them.


I can’t believe I’m starting over at the age of ______.





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